Moms Cherish the Kicks, Not the Labor
07 May 2004 - 3:38AM
PR Newswire (US)
Moms Cherish the Kicks, Not the Labor As 1.6 Million New Moms
Celebrate Their First Mother's Day, Babies 'R' Us Poll Findings
Reveal Most Memorable Moments of Pregnancy WAYNE, N.J., May 6
/PRNewswire/ -- The most memorable moment of pregnancy for mothers
is not what you might expect, according to the second annual Babies
"R" Us "All About Mom" opinion poll, which examines the
expectations, plans and concerns of new and expectant mothers.
Among the first-time moms who participated in this year's survey,
37% reported that feeling the baby move/kick for the first time was
the most memorable moment for them, 21% said it was experiencing
the sonogram/ultrasound, while only 2% stated it was the birth
itself. The results were similar for "experienced" moms (those with
more than one child), with 23% saying it was feeling the baby
kick/move, 22% stating it was experiencing the sonogram/ultrasound,
and again, only 2% reporting it was giving birth. Boy or Girl?
Another interesting finding is the number of moms who knew the
baby's gender before the baby was born. A whopping 89% of
experienced moms and 81% of first-time moms found out whether they
were having a boy or girl in advance. What topped the list of most
popular baby names this year? For boys, John and Ethan tied for
first place, while Elizabeth and Madison were the number one and
two most popular names for girls. Juggling Work & Family
According to this year's survey, moms are returning to work sooner
than they did last year. Of those planning to return to work, 35%
say they'll be juggling work and family just two months after
giving birth. Another 32% say they'll be back at work after three
months. Only 5% of the mothers planning to go back to work said
they'd take six months before returning. The poll also showed that
moms returning to work after their pregnancy turn to a variety of
resources for childcare. The top choice for childcare is one's own
mother or mother-in-law (36%), followed by a day care facility
separate from work (32%) one's husband or significant other (30%),
and other relative (17%). "For busy women today, the happy news of
a baby on the way requires both quick learning and intensive
planning so the baby's arrival can be as enjoyable and easy as
possible on the new mom," said Sue Montecallo, Vice President
Marketing, Babies "R" Us. "While having a baby is one of the most
wonderful times in a mother's life, it can also be rather
overwhelming. Our poll findings reveal how today's moms are
equipping themselves with the resources and knowledge they need to
prepare for the challenges and joys of motherhood, including taking
childbirth classes, accessing the Internet, planning the baby's
nursery, and making work-related and childcare decisions."
Surprising Worries What keeps pregnant women up at night? Among a
list of top concerns among first-time and experienced moms, the
health of the child ranked number one (87%), followed by being a
good parent (77%), money for their child's education (61%), weight
loss after pregnancy (57%) and finding daycare after returning to
work (53%). Believe it or not, getting enough sleep was not one of
the major concerns among the sample. Moms' preferred resources for
baby information tend to vary by age. For mothers under 25 years
old, mothers and other female relatives are the most important
pregnancy information source (78%), while the Internet grows in
importance with older moms. Eighty three percent of mothers over
the age of 35 cite the Internet as their preferred information
source on pregnancy. Dads Always Surprise While fathers are
typically quite thoughtful on Mother's Day -- letting the new mom
enjoy breakfast in bed or some other personal indulgence -- the
poll indicates that dads may still help less with diapers and
bathing than the modern mom anticipates. While they're expecting,
95% of moms-in-waiting predict that the child's father will
definitely change diapers. Seven percent fewer recently delivered
mothers, or 88%, say that dads actually deal with dirty diapers
once the task is a reality. Surprise!! Similarly, 86% of pregnant
women assume the baby's father will help with bathing baby; that
number drops by 24% to 62% who report they are getting help in the
bathing department once their newborn has arrived. On the bright
side, 34% of the new mothers report that fathers are pitching in to
care for the older children once the baby is born; that's a full
10% more than the 24% of expectant mothers who predict this will
occur. One strong possibility: men are more comfortable caring for
children as they grow older, with tasks like diaper changing and
bathing still the domain of the mother. Another interesting
"surprise" is how many women are caught off guard by the news that
they are pregnant. Almost half (47%) of experienced mothers report
that their pregnancy was not planned. Among first-timers, the
surprise factor is lower, but still 37% say that their first
pregnancy was not a planned one. The Sample Opinions and
preferences were expressed by a sample of 1,000 new moms and
moms-to-be when it comes to pregnancy, the baby shower, buying
decisions, education, the birthing process, baby naming and raising
the baby. All 1,000 participants in the poll, which was conducted
by InsightExpress, are participants in the Babies "R" Us Baby
Registry and 71% are first time moms. The majority of expectant
mothers were in their last trimester and recently delivered moms
had their babies within six months of being surveyed. Of those
surveyed, the majority is between the ages of 25 and 34, attended
some or up to 4 years of college. The participants live in
different parts of the United States and span a range of household
incomes; many work and more than 90% percent are married or living
with their significant other. The results of the opinion poll were
weighted to give equal influence to both groups of moms and
expectant moms. For more information about the Babies "R" Us "All
About Mom" Opinion Poll, please contact Erin Schiffman at (646)
935-4043. About Babies "R" Us Babies "R" Us is the nation's premier
baby products retailer and specialty store chain and a leader in
the juvenile industry. Since opening its first store in Westbury,
NY in early 1996, the company has grown to 200 locations
nationwide. The stores feature a wide selection of products for
newborns and infants, including: cribs and furniture, car seats,
strollers, formula, diapers, health and beauty aids, bedding,
clothing for preemies through size 48 months, toys, and plenty of
gift ideas. The Babies "R" Us Baby Registry reaches more expectant
parents than any other retailer in the country. DATASOURCE: Babies
"R" Us CONTACT: Erin Schiffman of Ketchum, +1-646-935-4043, , for
Babies "R" Us; or Pamela Faatz of Babies "R" Us, +1-973-617-5900,
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